| Q: I run my own business and having been through a messy divorce already I’m a bit cautious in my new relationship. We are about to move in together but I want to make sure I’m going into this with my eyes wide open. I’ve heard of “pre-nuptial agreements” but we aren’t planning to get married (yet) – can I protect my property, business and personal finance in any other way?
A: Pre-nuptial agreements are normally signed before a marriage and try to set out what would happen if the marriage ended. They can work well if there are no major changes and especially if likely big changes (such as the birth of children) are fully catered for.
In your circumstances a living together agreement might be suitable. This will set out who pays what whilst you are living together and will often go on to set out who gets what if the relationship should end. This would be a good way to protect your business and any other financial interests you have.
Both types of agreement are legal contracts and it is important that both parties fully understand what they are committing to. Courts, these days, will normally follow them if they’ve been properly drawn up and they can stop very major claims that would otherwise be likely to succeed.
Let’s face it, most of us only really want to stop claims in circumstances where a relationship is very short lived but then a claim is made for “half of everything”.
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